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April 26th, 2013 Posted in Uncategorized

A reader asks:

So what’s your take on the whole Porn addiction recovery scene (no PMO or no PMO + NO MO)?   The theory that older men are recovering sensitivity faster because we didn’t start with 20Mbit internet is interesting.  It’s pretty sad that these 20 year old guys have to abstain for 6 months plus and barely even get morning wood erections. 
 
Also, there was someone who mentioned that he was edging to porn but only ejaculating once a week and still got impotence issues.  So isn’t the issue here prolonged overstimulation?  If they’re going to relapse, why not relapse correctly, haha – just a few videos for 8-15 minutes with ejaculation? 
 
Curious about your thoughts.

My response:

Not sure what “PMO” and all those acronyms mean! lol

Here’s the story with porn addiction and all these stories about guys getting impotent from watching it…

Porn viewing is fundamentally a beta-male, if not an omega-male activity.  Why?  Because you are ultimately watching ANOTHER MAN fuck YOUR GIRL.  You cuckold yourself every time you watch it!

Think about the implications of this…

Nonetheless, we all can’t resist watching it.

Why?

Because we also are imagining that we are fucking that girl!  I have covered this in previous blog posts… if you can’t get the “10″ in real life then you will either get her in your mind – or in porn!

But let’s go back to the cuckold thing, because endless pontification has occurred over the “fantasy girlfriend” thing.

The perspective of the cuckold is in some respects more exciting than that of the one doing the fucking – and is also the KEY to understanding “porn addiction” and the negative, performance-related side-effects of porn.

Let me explain what sounds on the surface to be insane…

Fucking a beautiful woman is a lot like driving a high-end car.  The reality is that once you are behind the wheel of a Ferrari, you are pretty much only aware of the road.  The Ferrari ceases to exist.  Sure, you’ll notice the handling and feel the rumbling of the exhaust, but your experience is totally different from that of someone admiring the line and form of the car while it is parked in front of a cafe.  In fact, the experience of owning a Ferrari is guaranteed to be rather disappointing in the end…

Beautiful women are a lot like a Ferrari.  When you walk down the street holding their hand, you are at most aware of other people staring in admiration/envy.  Hopefully you will really have a deep energetic connection with this woman, because that’s all you’ll really ever get to experience anyway.  Otherwise, you will have to incessantly look back at her in an attempt to “capture” her beauty and hold onto that moment forever, and this sort of compulsive behavior will creep her out.  If you are observant you will see people doing this – not only to girls they are with, but also checking themselves out in the mirror, changing their profile picture on Facebook several times per week…  What are they trying to capture?

Observe this behavior in yourself, and answer the question what you are looking for – or more accurately… what are you trying to CAPTURE???

So when we watch porn like some cuckold we have the opportunity to capture moments of magic and beauty – opportunities to glimpse moments that would not present themselves if we were fucking, but these moments are dangerous because you will want to grasp them and hold them forever, yet they are as hard to grasp as clouds in the sky.  When we see them we get really excited!  We want to hold them forever, and so… we tense up and… ejaculate.

Now if you are unconscious of what is going on, you can become addicted to chasing the porn dragon until you are exhausted and have trouble getting erections in reality, due to depletion and the fact that the real women – especially the “real women” (lol) most guys get, are uninspiring anyway.  Even if they do look hot, they probably don’t handle well or make nice throaty sounds when you depress the bottoms of their pussies.  You are left completely starving.

It’s why guys with hot girls still watch porn.  For the same reason that guys with awesome cars still go to auto shows and jack off their brains to the lines and forms of other rides.

We are all chasing moments, and we are so desperate because we have so few in this world yet we need so many to not be insane.

The way out of this trap of chasing the porn dragon or changing your profile pic on Facebook every other day is really to take an inner journey where you dearmor yourself so that new clouds are always going by in your inner sky and you don’t feel the need to grasp onto any one of them in particular.  To quote the Kybalion, to escape from the pendulum you need to rise above it.

Now about this “edging” stupidity…  you hear all the time in EVERY SINGLE ebook on “how to cure premature ejaculation” that edging is the way to go.  Edging is the worst thing you can possibly do for yourself.  Why?  Because you are training yourself to be impotent!  Seriously, every time you get really excited you are training yourself to go soft.  How sick is this?  Punishing yourself for being aroused!

Premature ejaculation is caused by too much tension, and too much fluid gunked up inside of the man’s reproductive organs.  The tension needs to be released, and the gunk drained, and suddenly the problem is no more.  The issue of how to release tension in the pelvis is complex, and of course I recommend Shamanic Dearmoring as the optimal method, but going to the gym and doing bent over rows and t-bars with a wide stance, and taking Thai boxing classes 2 x per week where you kick the bags for 1 hour straight will also be of big help.

What is equally important though, is the issue of draining out the backed-up fluid from the man’s reproductive organs.  Your best tool is to use the Hitachi Magic Wand or the Wahl 2-speed all-body massager for this purpose.  What we will be doing with these tools, is inducing healing wet dreams as much as we want.

What I recommend you do is download porn videos that have those “hot moments” that usually last 10 seconds or whatever, and loop those magical seconds with a program like VLC media player.  Put the massager under your penis on the underside of the shaft close to the head.  Watch these magical moments until the massager makes you cum.

When you cum using this technique, it will be like a wet dream.  No sperm will come out (usually), just prostatic fluid and other gunk.  Wait 30-60 minutes and do it again.  You can also masturbate with a hard cock, ejaculate when you are at maximum hardness and excitement, then wait 30-60 minutes and use the massager once.

The second time you ejaculate with the massager, the fluid that comes out will be like crazy glue.  I am serious.  Super sticky.  You can glue your cock to your leg or underwear with it!  But, this stuff NEEDS to come out.

You can do this daily – look at it like you are inducing wet dreams at will.  You won’t lose much energy at all or be tired.

Over time, you will find your premature ejaculation problem gone, and you won’t lose your erection with a real woman because you won’t be training yourself to do so with this stupid “edging” nonsense.

In the short run, use Dapoxetine at 30mg along with Cialis at 2omg.  After a while, you won’t need either of these two substances.  Although, good Cialis is a lot of fun!

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